WARNING SIGNS OF CHILDHOOD DRINKING

(OR DRUG USE)

While the following behaviors may indicate an alcohol or other drug problem, some also reflect normal teenage growing pains. Experts believe that a drinking problem is more likely if you notice several of these signs at the same time, if they occur suddenly. and if some of them are extreme in nature.

• Mood Changes: flare-ups of temper, irritability, and defensiveness

• School Problems: poor attendance, low grades, and/or recent disciplinary actions

• Rebelling against family rules

• Switching friends, along with a reluctance to have you get to know the new friends

• A “Nothing Matters” Attitude: sloppy appearance, a lack of involvement in former interests, and general low energy

• Finding alcohol in your child’s room or backpack, or smelling alcohol on his or her breath

• Physical or Mental Health Problems: memory lapses, poor concentration, bloodshot eyes, lack of coordination, or slurred speech

• Increase in borrowing money or unaccounted for cash in small denominations

• Change in sleeping or eating habits

• Chronic colds and use of cold medicines

• Sudden use of strong perfume/cologne or the use of incense or room deodorant

TIPS FOR PARENTS

You can help your child to remain drug free when you:

• Practice Talking and Listening Skills With Your Child — Open communication channels

• Spend Time With Your Child — Set aside time every day

• Make Clear, Consistent, Enforceable Rules — Help your child learn the importance of rules

• Walk the Walk, Lead by Example — Consider the impact your actions have on your child

• Teach Your Child to Choose Friends Wisely — Peer influence is very important to your children

• Keep Track of Your Child’s Activities — Know what your child is doing

• Finally, if you have any reason to believe your child has a drinking or other drug problem, please get professional help by contacting the Student Assistance Counselor at your child’s school or by calling R.I’s treatment referral helpline at:

l-866-ALCDRUG (252-3784)

ASK THE QUESTIONS - GET THE ANSWERS

Before your child goes out, always ask these questions:

• Who are you going out with?

• Where are you going?

• How are you getting there? (who’s driving, for example)

• When do you expect to be home? (parents/caregivers should set curfews for their children)

Also, if your child is going to a friend’s house, ask if a parent will be present.

It’s not being nosy, it’s being a responsible parent or caregiver!